Watikah hari ini adalah...
Keputusan UPSR keluar hari ni. I was the first batch and Abang Long is final batch sitting for it. Perasaan itu ironic sikit. But I have always been a believer that the results does not define you as a person - it's your heart and intent yang lagi always always always more important above everything else.
So I actually oppose parents who go about visually in social media on their children punya assessments or big examination. It gives unnecessary pressure buat anak dan opens the door to any chance of self-shame afterwards. Segan dengan kawan lain. Segan dengan kawan-kawan Mak Bapak sendiri tu pun lain. No reason for unhealthy competition. But hey, that's just me. Everyone is entitled to their own say and life's beliefs. Life still goes on with or without great results on paper.
Alhamdulillah Abang Long did okay. He will still get to go into Form 1 kan. Mak jugak bernasib baik sebab dari awal memang emphasize asking the kids to mentally prepare ambition diorang so we can guide them for the necessary papers, subject etc. And so he will be the best chef in the world - InsyaaAllah,
All hugs and kisses. So long you stay in the right track, you still have a good heart, that's all that matters to me. Because having good paper results never guarantee that you will be a good person, good worker, good employee or team leader or a good businessman.
This is a self-reminder and gesture I put into the world today.
May all be blessed with whatever comes.
Nadia.Is.Grateful
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