Relationships

Watikah hari ini adalah...

Whoever said marriage is easy? Relationships without marriage, is without security. But marriage that turns bad, is better with divorce because it's pointless being in a marriage where you're not happy.

Tak, perkahwinan itu tidak mudah. Ada expectation, disappointment, kelekaan, kecelakaan (haha), kepenatan, and being taken for granted. Tolak ansur yang dah sampai habis. Duit belanja terkorban untuk kepentingan sendiri atau orang terdekat. Banyak factor that builds the relationship between the two of you, then there's immediate family, then the extended family and closest friends.

But here's the thing...

1. Kadang I overhear these girls yang about to be betrothed talking about how soon they want the child. You haven't even done the intimacy, and you're talking about the babies.
- Enjoy your spouse. Enjoy the journey. Kenal pasangan tu. As in, kenal fizikal, kenal emosi. Take your time to know each other.
- You don't have to rush for the baby. After all, korang jugak yang jaga, bukannya orang yang dok mintak sangat korang tu beranak (family etc).
- Build your relationship dulu dengan pasangan. Build trust. Penting tu. Then you work on the baby.

Nombor 1 je la sebab aku penat hari ni. Macam tak sihat.

You know, I miss some people. Nak je duduk bawah ketiak orang kena peluk day in, day out sampai dah tak nak dah. Nak ditimang. Nak dibelai-belai. But this is what I've got to work with. Dah tua-tua camni pun teringin jugak ke? Ya. naturally perempuan mahu dibelai.

Dah lah. Kbai.